There are way more woman in the world than men. I don't know the exact ratio to numbers, but it is a fact. With that said there are always women racing to be with, have sex or lock down a man (even though a huge percentage of women are choosing the lesbian route).
Well today I will switch my hat up, as I sometimes do and play the role of the hood Dr. Ruth for all of you ladies struggling to keep a man within your grasps. So listen carefully as i won't repeat any of this good game that i am dropping.
Okay here are the five sure ways to keeping your man...ladies listen up.
Number 1. F-ck him. Sorry to put it so bluntly, but I guess that's just the way you have to come at it. Most men hate women that are too sexually passive. Don't be so aggressive either, but definitely be assertive when it comes to matters of the bedroom. Don't be shy either! Like the homegirl Missy Elliot said "Get Your Freak On". Because ladies...you really can't get mad if your dude is getting what he can't get from you...from somewhere else. Maybe you should have jumped the gun and got to gettin a little sooner. One essential rule is to never confuse sex with emotions though. A man's head and his heart are operating on two different planes..if you know what I mean.
Number 2. Feed him. I think every woman already knows that one of the best ways to get to a man's heart is through his stomach. Every man loves to eat! If a woman tells me that she can't cook then I'm certainly looking at her like "what"? My mama taught me how to cook, so I don't need a woman to cook for me. However if you can bring it in the kitchen like Julia Child that just may drive him wild! Don't be lazy! Always wanting to eat at restaurants and stuff..acting like you classy!. Get your trifling tail up and cook a meal! Lol!
Number 3. Leave him. Sounds funny, but when a man is sexually satisfied and full he wants to be left the hell alone..for a while. Depending on the domestic situation depends on how long you should leave your man alone. If this is a live in situation then you should feed the man, f-ck the man and let that man take his ass to sleep. He will wake to love you more while not only having the scent of your love on his body, but the taste of your...food in his mouth! Trust me!
However if this is a dating situation "leave him" takes on a slightly different twist. A dating situation has a totally different commitment than a live in situation. If a guy chooses to just date a woman and not fully commit to her then that means that he still appreciates his space. So after enjoying steps one and two leave him with some time alone. You don't have to worry about calling him or if he's gonna come and see you. He knows whats good and will come when he is ready. And if you understand that and be patient things may just be okay.
Number 4. Befriend him. Now ladies, just because you really like a man doesn't mean that you have to get all silly and clingy. A guy likes a girl who can look him straight in the eye's and give him her honest opinion. Don't just sit back and be a "yes girl", because you like the guy. Be real with him. Any guy with some game can see straight through a female who is just along for the ride. Don't be stupid.
Number 5. Believe in him. This post goes beyond the fact of what it may take for you ladies to find a good man to believe in. While having a recent conversation with my homegirl I have come to see how difficult that may be. Anyhow ladies when you do find a man that you can get to this level with. Make sure you always have his back and you believe in his dreams. How is he gonna hold you down for what you want and need if you can't hold him down for what he wants and needs?
Heed this good game and ye shall go far!
OneLove & BlaxLife
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good....no GREAT post!
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